Finding a UK surrogate can take anywhere from 1 month to 12 months (or longer).
Women who choose to be surrogates should be screened from a health and psychology perspective. Organisations such as Surrogacy UK or COTS can guide yo on this. The emphasis here is on giving the intending parent(s) and surrogates the opportunity to get to know each other, and agree to work together. This may mean that your match will take longer.
It is important to consider a few things before deciding on a surrogate:
Have you agreed with your surrogate on whether she prefers a natural birth or an induced birth?
If you and your surrogate decide on an induced labour there are many things to consider.
I t is vital that all parties have open communication and are in agreement in advance. Even with the best laid plans complications can occur.
You will generally be supported in some way as you get to know your surrogate (Again Surrogacy UK and COTS provide such support). However intended parents and surrogates are ultimately respsonsble for developing relationships and agreements themselves.
Some intended parents conduct their match meeting over the phone instead of face to face.